i think people who hate carrie, secretly don't want to admit the similarities they see in themselves. i think people have an idea in their heads that confidence equivalates to never having insecurities. people have their own perceptions of others, which just leads to endless comparisons ; even unintentional. it's an ugly truth - an embarrassing one. nobody wants to admit whether or not they have the bad habits they do. but unfortunately for myself i have already said too much